If you think dirty, you feel dirty, you talk dirty, and finally you make dirty … and vice versa.
Thoughts, feelings, words and deeds …. all influence each other in one closed cycle.
Try to break this cycle anywhere – and you will see how this whole relationship changes.
Do you want to find out? For example, try not to swear. You’ll see how it affects the way you think, feel – finally act.
It’s a very simple experiment. Ready to use immediately …
I have seen many people in my life curse over and over again from the earliest hours of the morning.
Do you think it doesn’t affect their own way of thinking, feeling and acting?
Not only do they lose precious energy this way, but they set up / program themselves the wrong way … for no apparent reason.
The curse also has its place, time and reason – but whoever abuses it drives its own mechanisms in the wrong direction.
These inconspicuous words trigger a chain of reactions.
Incredible it may seem, but our own mind listens to our own words …
Just like spoken by someone else – with the difference, however, that the strength of their influence is incomparably greater.
I have been convinced of this for years while learning foreign languages. In fact, I only start learning when my own ears (actually my mind) hear my own mouth …
Passive listening or reading – they are much less powerful. When I start talking to myself – I start to learn for real.
The famous philosopher Arthur Schopenhauer compared our subconscious to a giant elephant. This elephant is walking in the direction we slowly give him. Such a mass is not easy to control.
It has its inertia. I like this comparison very much. One has to be careful what we say to this elephant …
Everything I am writing about is nothing new. This is based on a recognized scientific method, known in psychology as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT).
CBT is based on the fundamental triangle of dependence (Thoughts, Feelings, Behavior). I added one element – words.
It’s like CBT + Words.
I could extend it much more and add everything that we perceive with our senses. I’m talking about creating your surroundings consciously. The sensual environment in which we live. It has a powerful influence on the entire chain of dependencies. What you watch, what you listen to,… etc.
Don’t let it be a coincidence. It feeds you back …. a lot.